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What to expect when you get in touch with the Men’s Advice Line

Whether you contact Men’s Advice Line by phone, email or webchat, we want to offer you the most appropriate help and support, via a high-quality service, with courtesy and respect.

Men’s Advice Line has been awarded the Helplines Standard three consecutive times by the Helplines Partnership, the lead organisation for non-profit helplines in the UK and Ireland. The Helplines Standard is a nationally recognised quality standard which defines and accredits best practice in helpline work.


When you call us

Men’s Advice Line is a very busy helpline and we can’t always answer calls as quickly as we would like. A queueing system operates with no maximum waiting time. Your call will be held in the queue until an Advisor becomes available or until the time the helpline closes.

While your call is in the queue, you will hear a ‘still in the queue’ message every minute or so, giving you information about your place in the queue.

To enable as many callers as possible to get help and support, we offer calls of around 30 minutes. However, if your situation is complex, the Advisor will not terminate your call prematurely. You are welcome to contact us as many times as you need to.

Who will i speak to?

  • Our Helpline Advisors will be available to offer advice and emotional support to those who are experiencing abuse, and signpost to other vital services that will help keep you safe.

Please note:

Men’s Advice Line is staffed by both male and female Advisors. If you prefer to speak to a male Advisor, when you get through to a female Advisor, and vice versa, please inform the Advisor you are speaking to and he or she will transfer your call to another member of the team, if one is available.

What will we ask?

  • Depending on what prompted you to call, the Advisor will ask questions to understand your situation better and give you relevant advice.
  • We want to understand the level of risk you’re at, so we can help you plan your safety better. Some of these questions may come across as too personal. If you feel that you don’t want to answer, please let the Advisor know that you are not ready to talk about a specific issue.
  • We do not ask for any kind of proof or evidence that you have experienced domestic abuse. You don’t have to prove anything in order to get help and support from Men’s Advice Line.
  • We do not ask for your name, date of birth, address. The call is confidential and anonymous. At the end of the call, we ask all callers monitoring questions. These are required by our Funders and we appreciate your answers; however, if you prefer not to answer, that’s ok. You cannot be identified by these answers, though.
  • The monitoring questions we ask are: how you heard about the helpline; how old you are; how you describe your gender and your sexual orientation; what your ethnic group is; and which local authority you live in.


When you email us

We reply to most emails on the same or next working day. Our service target is to reply to emails within two working days.


When you contact us via webchat

The webchat service is offered every Wednesday, Thursday and Friday 10-11am and 3-4pm. Your chat will be connected to an Advisor, if one is available. Once connected, we kindly request that you try to respond within 2 minutes, so that the Advisor can focus on helping you and your webchat is not terminated.


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